Recently, Ariel Lin’s interview about "getting up at 7 o’clock to take care of her in-laws and sending her father-in-law to work" was turned out again, which made netizens comment that "it’s not easy for a rich family". On the 9 th, she personally posted a document and responded to six key disputes surrounding her:
1. Grandma cooked breakfast for the whole family from beginning to end. In the first two years, I did try to be a "good daughter-in-law", but now I have slept until I woke up naturally for a long time.
2. It is a rumor that the husband takes the tender model home.
3. You can go back to your family at any time.
4. Deny that "I have never farted in front of my husband".
5. Her husband’s family never asked her to eat raw frogs to improve her physique.
6. Marrying is not a "rich family" but a "good family", and not bowing to the demands of others.
It is reported that in October 2014, Ariel Lin got engaged to her husband Lin Yuchao, and in December of the same year, they held a wedding in Taipei. Lin Yuchao is a rich second generation, and his family runs the diving equipment company "Youhan" in Taiwan Province, with branches all over the world. The two are friends who have known each other for a long time, and they are once again sparking because of their reunion at a friend’s wedding.
Ariel Lin was eager to have a child, and in 19 years, she announced that she would stop working for pregnancy. During this period, Ariel Lin made full preparations from "all aspects" and even bought the school district house before the baby came. In the interview, Ariel Lin said that she had tried all kinds of methods, including artificial insemination, to have a baby, but nothing happened.
Ariel Lin’s full text is as follows:
Some things seem to be unclear, and people will judge you are lying when your nose itches and touches your nose! In short, all kinds of news are copied and pasted, and some of them only have self-made subtitles, and there is no my voice at all. These are testing the wisdom and independent thinking and judgment ability of the guards. It is really not easy for everyone to get through this! Just clarify a few major misunderstandings, and I won’t talk about them in particular in the future ~
Mistake 1: Get up at 3/4/5/6 in the morning to make breakfast for my in-laws and then send my grandfather out to work.
Grandma cooked breakfast for the whole family from beginning to end. Our science girl needs a stage to give full play to her creativity. At most, I got one help but none, or when she didn’t want to cook breakfast, she just picked up my mobile phone and made a reservation at all the brunch restaurants in Taipei. I have slept until I woke up naturally for a long time, because my family insisted on my natural dark circles because I didn’t get enough sleep, so I was not allowed to cooperate with their life pace in the morning. In the first two years, I did try to be a "good daughter-in-law" and get up early (at most 7 o’clock) to have dinner with everyone, but my work schedule was really different from my family, so I gave up my arms and surrendered later!
Mistake 2: The husband takes the tender model home.
How do you bring the tender model home when you live with your in-laws? I’m the only one who can barely be called a tender model in the family. I’m really wronged him. There is only one female golden mouse in LA’s tender model.
Mistake 3: As long as I’m not in Taipei, you can always go back to your mother’s house.
It means to "stay" at my parents’ home. It doesn’t matter if I want to stay for a few days, but can my husband try not to, because he will miss me!
Mistake 4: Ariel Lin has never farted in front of her husband.
I remember I was embarrassed and smiling, right? The result becomes the "default", but in fact (directly quoting Brother Chao here), "Do they not know that you all attack me with your smelly fart? How considerate of you to let me go outside, but I am called a big man? (wronged) "
Five mistakes (big mistake! ! ! My husband’s family asked me to eat raw frogs to improve my health.
My favorite is that frogs lay eggs (pearls/pink balls/boba). I am definitely not a raw frog, and I have never eaten it. I have started to practice vegetarian food once a day, okay? ! It is everyone’s responsibility to reduce carbon emissions! Eat less meat! !
Mistake 6: The rich daughter-in-law is grovelling.
Everyone I know knows that I am not married to a "rich family", but I am definitely married to a "good family". A kind and hardworking family also needs to work hard for their livelihood instead of idleness, and they love me like their own daughter. If I am the only channel in my family to speak to the outside world, and not saying a word has caused them injustice, then it is necessary for me to say something.
Not getting married or not having children is a choice. It is also a choice to form your own family and give birth to the next generation. The focus is on your own decisions, rather than succumbing to the demands of others and the general trend of society. I understand this, and I can bear all the results brought by my own choices, and I will not be embarrassed to ask for help when I need help. What is face? Can you eat face? The last thing an actor needs is face! )
Just kidding, but it’s not easy for everyone, and everyone has their own life problems to face, but it’s always helpful to have more kindness around them and give others more space, right?