If you don’t want to work, I suggest doing these three things.
five to three p.m.From China Business News.
Author: Li can.
Some people say that 80% of the pain in life comes from going to work.
But if you don’t go to work, I think you will have another dilemma:
100% of your pain will come from having no money.
No matter how hard life is, no matter how tired work is, it is better than having no money.
If one day you don’t want to work, I suggest you look at these three kinds of people around you.
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Look at your family.
Who will protect them if they don’t work hard?
Blogger @ Thought Focus talked about an experience he had in a hospital.
One afternoon, he met a thin worker in the hospital. The doctor diagnosed him with pneumonia and suspected that he had a tumor in his lung. He was asked to have a CT as soon as possible.
But he quickly refused, saying that he would not have the money to do the inspection until at least next month when the foreman paid the money.
Out of the door, his wife was crying and calling to borrow money. At that moment, he almost cried.
It’s really hard on earth, and the pain of lack of money can be understood by going to the hospital once.
Why should we work hard? Because sometimes, money can buy life.
Some time ago, I complained to my friends about my parents’ unwillingness to go for a medical examination.
I said, are all parents in the world like this, and the physical examination is not too expensive, so why don’t they want to go?
The friend replied: In fact, they are not only worried about the money for physical examination, but also afraid that if they find out something, everyone can’t stand it.
Not all parents are unwilling to go for a physical examination. Rich people have hired private doctors.
It’s bloody.
Before, I also pursued the attitude of "Life is short, eat, drink and be merry", but since then, I have changed.
Because I understand that even if I don’t love money, I still need money.
If I choose comfort now, who will protect my family once something happens to them?
Lao He is a famous "desperate Saburo" in his circle of friends. After graduation, he started his business day and night, and finally owned his first small company a few years later.
Friends advised him to take this opportunity to have a good rest, but he said that he didn’t dare to stop. He said:
My daughter-in-law is pregnant, and she has been with me for so long. At the very least, she should find a better private hospital and let her suffer less.
When the child is born, we should give him a good environment. Unlike me, when I was a child, I was afraid of asking for a dollar to buy a pen at home.
No matter how hard you are, you can’t suffer from your daughter-in-law. No matter how tired you are, you can’t make your child feel inferior.
I’m not greedy, I just want my family to live a better and more decent life.
Presumably, many people have a deep resonance. At school, we can skip classes willfully. After work, we dare not even ask for sick leave just for the attendance award of 500 yuan per month.
At that time, we could live comfortably because our family members were paying for us.
In the future, we have to endure the hardships of going to work because it is up to us to pay.
02
Look at friends around you.
How can you keep up with them without working hard?
Some time ago, the classmates discussed the work.
Many people say that when people reach middle age, they don’t have to pursue any high-paying jobs any more. It’s good to have a low salary and relax and make themselves comfortable.
Abortion said, I absolutely agreed with this view before.
As soon as she graduated, she entered a state-owned company, and her work was very leisurely. Even colleagues around her played mahjong online during working hours.
At first, she felt that the working atmosphere was bad and the pace was too slow, but whenever she had plans to resign, her parents earnestly advised her:
Girls, just be able to support themselves. Why bother to make yourself so tired?
Over time, she became numb, fishing at work, chasing dramas after work and shopping at weekends.
In the first few years after graduation, other students were busy with work, promotion and salary increase, and Xiaoyue was busy with love.
Later, she married a grassroots leader of the same company, paid a down payment and bought a car with the support of her parents.
Whenever she sees other students working overtime and staying up late in the circle of friends, she still has a little sense of superiority.
She thought that such a comfortable life could last her whole life, but her plan couldn’t keep up with the change.
State-owned enterprises were restructured, and large-scale layoffs began. I prayed day and night, but she and her husband were still being laid off.
In the past few years, her work skills have not improved except for the improvement of her card skills.
When I attended the party, I found out how far apart I was from my friends.
Friends invited him to travel to France with a budget of at least 20,000, but she could only politely refuse.
You can only buy the essence of a bottle if you are hard-hearted, and the dressing table of your friends is already full;
Not only is it the economic difference, but what scares her more is that she feels that she has nothing to say with her friends.
Some people have not stopped reading after graduation, and their knowledge is more extensive;
Some began to cultivate their hobbies and became more confident.
When they were talking about economic trends in Kan Kan, she couldn’t get a word in.
Just like when the Tangshan toll station was closed, those people shouted:
At that time, I paid for this job, but now I don’t want us. It is very difficult for us to find a job. I spent all my youth at the toll booth. I’m 36 now, and I can’t learn anything. I only charge.
There is no such thing as a quiet time in this world, but there is a dark tide behind the scenery.
There is no permanent iron rice bowl in this world. The so-called iron rice bowl means that you can eat anywhere.
If you don’t work hard, how can you have the strength to face sudden unemployment and natural and man-made disasters that are unprepared?
Boiling frogs in warm water is a scam, and times will abandon you without saying hello.
Only by working hard can we keep up with the times.
03
Look at strangers around you
Whose life is not hard and whose work is not wronged?
On Labor Day, the host, Mr. Tu Lei, sent such a short video.
00:48
That day, he recorded the program until 11: 30 in the middle of the night, and then recorded Beijing in the early morning with his mobile phone.
At 0 o’clock in the morning, the takeaway brother continued to deliver food;
At 2 o’clock in the morning, the hawkers at the midnight snack stalls are still setting up stalls;
At 3 o’clock in the morning, the younger brother is still busy on the road;
At 4: 30 in the morning, the breakfast shop has begun to prepare ingredients;
At 5 o’clock in the morning, the street lamp just went out, and it was dawn. Some takeaway brothers began to send takeout again.
Whose husbands, parents, sons and wives are they …
Where there are quiet years, everyone is carrying a heavy load. If you feel that going to work is hard, see how they persist for ten years.
Even in a so-called "big company", it is inevitable to work overtime.
Someone recorded the off-duty time of Ali and Huawei with a mobile phone.
At 20:30 in the evening, Huawei Park was brightly lit and the door was empty.
At 19: 56 in the evening, Alibaba’s beehive was radiant, and only a few people got off work in front of the gate.
Until 23:25, Huawei had the first wave of off-duty climax at the door.
It is no exaggeration to say that their off-duty time is concentrated around 0 o’clock.
There is no easy job, everyone is working hard.
Only by working hard can you look effortless.
I don’t want to advocate overtime, but I just want to tell you that there is no easy word in the adult world, no life is easy, and no job is undeserved.
Only by working hard can the sweat you shed become a considerable income.
In an era when everyone is running forward, stopping is also a kind of retreat.
04
If you don’t want to work, I suggest you do three things first
There is a joke circulating on the Internet. If you don’t want to work, I suggest you do three things first:
First, look in the mirror and see if you have a beautiful face.
Second, look at the balance on your bank card and see if you have enough property.
Third, look at the new marriage law, which will tell you that the era of "poverty-alleviation marriage" is over, and everything depends on yourself.
If you don’t have enough money in your bank card and there are not many demolition houses at home, you still have to work hard.
Kazuo inamori said in the Living Law:
Where do people need to stay away from mortal dust?
The workplace is the best place to cultivate the spirit, and work itself is a kind of practice.
As long as you work hard every day and cultivate lofty personality, a better life will be at your fingertips.
Do you work hard just to make money?
Can’t say no, in fact, it is for a choice and responsibility.
In order for you to choose life or survival for you and your family, in order to create what conditions for your family.
Compared with these, physical fatigue, mental stress and struggle in the workplace are nothing.
No matter how poor you are, you will beg. If you don’t die, you will get ahead.
There is no sweat in vain, and there is no pain in vain. All the pain you are suffering now will become a medal in the future.
God will treat everyone who works hard and encourage you.
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